Yesterday, I filled you in on the productivity of my husband… for the life of me, I can’t think of what I spent my days doing that was productive. But I can tell you what I spent my nights doing… sleeping! For the first time in 9 months, I spent my nights SLEEPING, rather than traveling up and down the stairs every 2-3 hours to nurse Kaden. How did this happen? Let me tell you…
He cried it out.
I was going to put this off until after our next trip to Seattle, but the opportunity presented itself and we went with it.
Thursday night, I was playing in my scrapbook room and Matt came in around 8:15 and asked “How long has Kaden been crying?” I gasped… what? I hadn’t even heard him! We knew he was well-fed (he’d only gone down about a half-hour before) so, Matt encouraged me to stay-put and we’d just see what he’d do. (Which is interesting, because this is so similar to how it went down with Cooper 3 years ago, when we made him cry it out… it started at 8:30 one evening, and by Matt’s insistence…) About a half-hour later, he stopped crying with NO intervention from us.
We knew he could do it. And the time felt right. So, when he woke again at 10:30, when I’d just gotten into bed, I listened to him cry. Again for about half-an-hour. Surprisingly, I didn’t cry myself… I knew he was okay. I heard him again around 4:30 but that only lasted about 5 minutes. And then I raced into his room at 8:30am when he finally, HAPPILY called for me. I couldn’t get him to nurse fast enough. Let me tell ya… going from nursing every 3 hours to suddenly having a 13-hour stretch!! What?? I didn’t realize it was that long until I typed it… crazy. Anyway, I was FULL and a hurtin’ unit.
The next night was even better, and last night, I heard him let out a cry at 8:30 and then not another peep until 6am. So, now, he’s going 11 hours, straight! Last week at this time, I was up every-other-hour with him!
I’m not sure, yet, if he’s a happier baby during the day. Which does bring me to realize what I did during my weekend DAYS. I nursed. ALOT. And saw this… A LOT. Kaden was seriously making up for lost time. Where-ever I was, there HE was, at my feet, either just sitting or pulling up on my legs. And whenever my arms weren’t busy, I was holding him.
Which was fine by me… because I may have been going through a little Mama/Kaden-time withdrawal myself and if it is possible, I think I find him even more precious than I did 4 days ago! :)
2 comments:
CONGRATULATIONS! That's wonderful news.
I love Kaden's foot in the first photo....check out his big toe. Oh-so-sweet little Tado.
XOXOXO to three boys sleeping all night through (and Mama & Dad too)
And Grammie when she's visiting :0)
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